“So I never really bonded to anyone. I never really made any friends and that just kind of continued. And I’m this whole time thinking that it’s them, that it’s other people. They just don’t like me or they’re just mean or something. So I had this whole victim mentality going on and nobody could tell me that I was the problem.
I did have a work friend tell me that I was the common denominator in all of that, so maybe I should get some help for that. And I was so mad. I was so mad at him for saying that. But I look back now and I’m like, ‘He’s so right’. He was right.
Whenever you discover a pattern, you have to look at yourself because that’s the only way you’re going to get out of it.”
